GOING OUT
Have a blind date with your
sweetheart. Meet for drinks or dinner. Act as if you’re strangers. A
first time chance meeting. Pretend that you don’t know anything about
each other. Ask the questions that you would ask if they were a real
stranger. Like who they are, where they have been, what they do. Ask if
they are married. When they tell you yes, have them tell you about
their spouse (you).
A chance meeting at an art
gallery or some place that is of interest to both of you. Go into
detail about the ones you like and the ones you don’t. Ask questions
of your partner as to why they feel that way. Talk movies, about
sculptures. Try to put yourself in the artist’s place as to the why
they came up to that idea. What was their inspiration. Why that
color? Why use that metal? How much clay did it take? How many tries
to get it that way? Invite them home to view your pictures, paintings,
sculptures or creation.
Take a dance class together. I
like to square dance. It was a bear at first, but after about 8 lessons
I finally got the hang of it. Then my wife and I got pretty darn good
at it. And we grew closer and closer together. Try Tango, Salsa,
hip-hop, country, line, dance, waltz etc…. Try any or all until you
find some that you like.
Go to a romantic movie, at the
walk in movie theater. Sit in the back row and make out like you were
teenager. Munch on your popcorn and split a Pepsi. You may or may not
get to see the movie but As long as you enjoy each other. Create your
own movie.
Find a special place to eat. A nice romantic
restaurant. And make it your own. Get to know the waiter, the cooks,
and the staff. Hang up your coats and take your time. Have your own
table and ask for it each time you visit. Order a different dish each
time you go there. Try everything on the menu. If they have long table
clothes kick your shoes and rub your sweeties feet. Hold hands, rub
palms while waiting for your meal.
Go to benefit concerts,
dances, performances and dances. They draw the bigger names and you
know the money is going to a good cause. And all the money they raise
will help your community.
Take a Scenic walk though a
nature trail. In most towns there is a trail of some kind. Find it and
go. Take your time as you walk hand in hand or arm in arm. Take your
time and see all the things that you would normally miss during you
regular 9 to 5 rat race.
Find a sauna that has private hot
tubs. These are extra nice on cold rainy days. Try to find one that has
a private garden that you and your sweetheart can soak up all the nice
relaxing warm water while watching it rain or snow out side. If they
don’t have the piped in music you like. Take your own. MP3 players are
pretty small now and an external set of speakers are inexpensive.
Sign up for classes together.
Take a course in art, maybe a foreign language, or perhaps an art course. How about a pottery course. Any thing that you can talk about and help each other to get closer.
When you go to a party make sure you keep your partner close by. You don’t have to hover. But make sure you sweetheart is not neglected. Tend to their needs as well as your own.
By: Jimmy Joe Wells
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