At Meal time
Use the prep and
cooking time to prep each other for the
Main event later. Help each
other peel, cut, mash, wash the fruits
and veggies. Measure the
ingredients, chop the onions, carrots
or what ever is needed. Stir up
something good, DON'T let a mistake or
two in the kitchen spill over
into the dinning room table.
Make eye contact with your partner. Let
them see how much you really love them and appreciate All
that they do. Blow a kiss or two. Wink
(as if you were back in
school),Hold hands. Gently rub the palm
of his/her hand. Speak volumes
of love without saying a word.
I wish there were a
magic potion
thatonce taken it would keep us in love for ever. Like in
the movie "The Good Witch"
Catharine Bell plays a newcomer to a small
town. When she sells an aromatherapy
to one of the town ladies. The
lady (played by the woman that played
Tipy in 'DOC') Has such great
results that she becomes pregnant. Even
after years of being told she
couldn't get pregnant. Life is so 50's
for them.
You have heard the old saying "Dress
for Success". It works in marriage and
relationships too. At least once a week
dress up, As if you were
walking the Red Carpet in Hollywood
with Brad, Jen, J-Lo, The Arnold
and all the other "in people".
Dress to impress your mate. Let you
attire say to him/her that they are
worth any trouble it was to get
dressed up for them.
Give your partner a loving hand. Use
your fork to place his/her napkin on their lap. Softly and
lovingly, feed your partner a bite or
two. Let them do the same to you.
Let the symphony of love enhance your
sense of touch, taste, sight and
smell. Let love reach it's summit a
little after dinner.
Dress up the dinner table too. Change
table clothes, napkins, napkin rings,
candles, fresh flowers every week. Keep
it new and fresh each time.
Dim the lights, start the music ( no I
don't mean Hammer either) something
soft and sexy. Light that aromatic
candle in the center of the table.
As you or if possible let your partner
hold your hand as you light the
candle say a little prayer for your
food and one another.
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After dinner try a sensuous desert like
a banana split, crepes jubilee, hot
apple pie a la mode or even a mousse.
Take turns feeding each other.
Slowly and playfully.
If possible, take turns planning and
cooking the meal. Choose a different theme each time. Like Western
night, steak, baked potato and a tossed salad. Or South of the
border,
like nachos, tacos, taco salad. Spice
it up.
Eat healthy. You want your partner and
yourself to be healthy for a long
happy life together. Serve lots of
fresh veggies and fruit like grapes
on the stem. It lends it's to the
feeding each other.
Blindfold your partner and have them
guess what you are about to serve. Put a
small piece under their nose for 10-15
seconds and see if they can
guess what it is. Do this with each
course you serve. Cut the time down
each time.
Keep in touch all day. If allowed. Call
your partner a few times a day to lit them
know you love and miss them. DON'T BE A
PEST! If your partner has a busy
or stressful job keep the calls down to
a minimum. Talk as you did when the
relationship was new. Put on the school
boy or girl charm. You can do it.
Spend the time and cost to send you
loved one a love letter. Get mushy.
remember the feeling you had in the
beginning? It will pay you back ten
fold in the long run. Try to write it
as thou you were someone else.
Write as if you were a secret admirer.
Be bold but vague . Don't use
the slang phrases that you use talking
to each other everyday. Don't
call them by a pet name you use only
for them. Like on my cell phone my
home number is called "A Sweet
Thing", so in a letter I wouldn't refer
to her as "hey, sweet thing".
Get the drift? Oh to make it even more of
a mystery don't sign it. Keep them
guessing for a while.
Meet them for lunch somewhere you love
to go to. Or if time allows get a
motel room and take your partner to it
for a home cooked meal. No hank y
pank y now that's for later.
Depending on your partners job, send
them flowers at least once a month.
Some co-workers are very childish and
still like to tease. So if our partner is in
something like construction. maybe
flowers wouldn't be the best choice.
Find something to send that won't
embarrass them.
Send them " a special sexy gift.
have the card read "Private. Open in a private
place". Send sexy clothing, body
oils, music, or something they will
treasure for life.
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Learn to give great back rubs. Help
with the kids, cooking, cleanup,
What ever it takes to help your
partners evening go more smoothly.
The dividends will pay you back 100
fold later. Either way good or bad.
be careful it don't go south on you.
Go visit your partner at work and on
their break go to a private area and
give them a big warm embrace and
profess your love to them.
Tell your partners co-workers about
special days and events in their lives.
Like their birthday, anniversaries, a
new baby or grand baby,
graduating from a special class or
school.
Send a singing telegram to their work
place. Or record one yourself and have it delivered.
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